What would you do

[LINDA]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: concerned</div><div class="ubbcode-body">hell...who knows...maybe when all is said and done he won't be the man I want to be with but that will remain to be seen</div></div>

Girl, how old are you?? If he's not already the man you want him to be HE N E V E R WILL BE.

[LINDA]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: JM1</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> Concerned, rescue relationships generally go no where and love doesn't conquer all.

You'll never get these years back. Free yourself. Life is short and every day is a gift. </div></div>

Ditto to this AND usually the rescuee dumps the rescuer once they are clean.

[Suesumba]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You are addicted yourself not every addict self medicate.
but when they do they use the most convenient 'treatment. His is crack at this time. yours is the type of companion you are attracted to. You should chek up on your self esteem. It is usually the source of all addictions.
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but she just won't get *it*. self delusion and all that. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[LINDA]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dr.Dudd</div><div class="ubbcode-body">You should chek up on your self esteem. It is usually the source of all addictions.</div></div>

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[newcomer]

Re: What would you do

good morning to you Dr.Dudd

is it that you call yourself a Dr. that has you believe you know something about this issue?
or did you read this in a Readers Digest magazine or learn this watching Dr.Phil? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/shocked.gif[/img]
it is a funny thing how people pass judgement on others in life when they have NO IDEA of what that person's life has been [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/eek2.gif[/img]
it is the mentality of people like you that make me realize how little I have in common with,thank goodness,that kind of thought process

I say thank God because all that labeling only leads people believing they shouldn't help others
not unless there is some reward or positive outcome for themselves

I happen to be a woman who was in a long,25year,healthy marriage to a man who passed on a while back

the first man I met in Jamaica was someone who was a big lesson in my life for me,no regrets,no animosity just a better understanding of what I didn't know when I first met him

my self esteem is okay Doc...

and of course being only human there are good days and bad

thanks for your concern but go on to the next patient now who
needs you [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/notworthy.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: What would you do

this post reminds me of the episodes of All my children when Erica had a miscarriage for two years straight. the same miscarriage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img]

[newcomer]

Re: What would you do

this wasn't intended to be amusing
this is REAL life
sad,yes,,,more for my friend who is suffering with the problem
life isn't always a bowl of cherries now is it?
we must take the bad with the good some of the time

if you have never been sad you can't know what it means to be happy

I hope you understand what I am saying
your friend Dr. Dudd wants to talk about low self esteem
no,that isn't what the issue is here
the issue was what to do when you have a friend in need


the only person in this thread that had an understanding of this all...or at least in a manner of thinking that is similar to mine was SistaCaf

read over again what she wrote and you may get a better view on it all than what has come from the rest


respect and thank you

[BlessedLadyOfZion]

Re: What would you do

how dare u bring ms kane inna dis?? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[newcomer]

Re: What would you do

Ditto to this AND usually the rescuee dumps the rescuer once they are clean.


when you learn that YOU DON'T DO THINGS FOR PEOPLE TO GET SOMETHING BACK IN RETURN you will have grown TREMENDOUSLY and learned a lot

bless you
I hope if you ever have someone come to you in need you will remember why you should help
not for your own good but genuinely for the good of who needs the help

respect

[newcomer]

Re: What would you do

who is ms. Kane???

[Nunya]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this post reminds me of the episodes of All my children when Erica had a miscarriage for two years straight. the same miscarriage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

You watched AMC for two years??? Straight??????? Mi laas affa yuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img]

[newcomer]

Re: What would you do

oh...I see it now
Ms. Kane is someone from the soap opera Sue speaks of

not my style
life is to important to waste it on television and surely
I don't bother with soap operas [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/rolleyes.gif[/img]

[Suesumba]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this post reminds me of the episodes of All my children when Erica had a miscarriage for two years straight. the same miscarriage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

You watched AMC for two years??? Straight??????? Mi laas affa yuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

i was eight years old. i had to go home for lunch [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/helpsmilie.gif[/img] and for the record i'm still traumatized [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] kinda like concerned

[MarieK]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: concerned</div><div class="ubbcode-body">life is to important to waste it on television </div></div>

I fully agree, spend it on a crackhead instead [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/yahoo.gif[/img]

a wanda wah sadness haffi duh wid dealin wid a crackhead

[MarieK]

Re: What would you do

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">this post reminds me of the episodes of All my children when Erica had a miscarriage for two years straight. the same miscarriage. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] </div></div>

You watched AMC for two years??? Straight??????? Mi laas affa yuh [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/whatever.gif[/img] [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/704555_dwl.gif[/img] </div></div>

i was eight years old. i had to go home for lunch [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/helpsmilie.gif[/img] and for the record i'm still traumatized [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/crybaby.gif[/img] kinda like concerned </div></div>

When I was home for a month I was into one (this was back in March), imagine my surprise yessideh when mi tun awn di tv an di sed ooman was in di sed clothes dealing wid di sed issues