I would like some opinions

[MarieK]

Re: I would like some opinions

bandanna, that is different, you are getting support not financial but otherwise, she has to do everything.

I feel u on teh daycare thing though. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]

[Bandana]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body">bandanna, that is different, you are getting support not financial but otherwise, she has to do everything.

I feel u on teh daycare thing though. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] </div></div>

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hmmm...

not sure what you mean by support MK [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

Yes, now that his father and I can talk calmly, he comes to "visit" his son.

But for the first year I did not get any "support" from him what-so-ever... We could not be in the same room with out argument come up...

I hope that Deb will also come to a point where she and the man can be friends and both be a part of the childs life...

Is it not "child-support" whe she say mek her keep the man in the states??? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/confused.gif[/img]

I am just saying that she can do it, even with out the child support...

[Bandana]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: TSmall</div><div class="ubbcode-body">.... </div></div>

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why you delete it Tsmall???

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[Boopie2]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mrs. MarieK</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SueSumba</div><div class="ubbcode-body">i'm wondering how successful she'd actually be in leaving this man. women who are in abusive relationships, have been brainwashed & programmed by their abusers to think that they don't deserve any better. this stuff has been going on for seven years with the freeloader.

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I don't think so one of my friends are going through almost the same thing. He's a freeloader as her husband is, I just can't fathom me getting up working hard every day while he contributes nothing to the household.

I've never had a man to abuse me, like Nunya said he just didn't start with these things. I can't believe what type of police system you have wherever you are.
she'd be very succesful S, simply because she hasn't been fully brainwashed yet. Hey she has the sense to notice that he's a freeloader and she is being burned out, but I give her two more occasions and she's be completely gone.

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[Phatty]

Re: I would like some opinions

Have you watched the news lately? Women and children are the main victims, the world has gone nuts. Forget his green card, he obviously wasn't thinking of how much you do for him when he went as far as to hurt you!!! You need to pack your things and your child and get as far away as possible, let him worry about his immigration issues. Or would you rather your family worry about hospital bills or worse funeral bills. Think of your child and how your life maybe without him or his life without you. YOU NEED TO LEAVE!!! I think it will be easy for you if your a single mom your already supporting a houshold with 2 children might as well move on and take care of one.

[Nylah]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Phatty</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> You need to pack your things and your child and get as far away as possible, let him worry about his immigration issues. Or would you rather your family worry about hospital bills or worse funeral bills. </div></div>

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[Boopie2]

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True,people are crazy he has everything to lose cause he's the leech. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70400-talktohand.gif[/img] He already warned you if you called the police he would kill you, believe what he says. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70456-eyebrows.gif[/img]

[R00TS]

Re: I would like some opinions

If you leave him my advice for you would be to never let
your son hear you talk of his father doing you this way.

I also was beatin unconcious and then strangled till he thought
I was dead. I had woke him up gettin in bed one nite [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]
He insisted on no contact with th twins when devorced and i complied..
no support nothing but worth it.

My sons have never heard me say a bad word about their father and I feel its been easier for them to become better men.

Hopeing you can take Skells Mothers words to heart [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]

[Serenity82]

Re: I would like some opinions

He is your husband. How about trying counseling. But if he hits you ONE MORE TIME..kick him out..

[Nunya]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is your husband. How about trying counseling. But if he hits you ONE MORE TIME..kick him out.. </div></div>
One more time??? What, two's the limit???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img]

[Nunya]

Re: I would like some opinions

(((Roots)))

You know, I love it when my sisters can gain the ultimate revenge by living well... [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70409-waytogo.gif[/img]

[Nylah]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is your husband. How about trying counseling. But if he hits you ONE MORE TIME..kick him out.. </div></div>
One more time??? What, two's the limit???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] </div></div>

It only takes one time to be dead........

[Compry]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is your husband. How about trying counseling. But if he hits you ONE MORE TIME..kick him out.. </div></div>

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[Serenity82]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Nunya</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Serenity82</div><div class="ubbcode-body">He is your husband. How about trying counseling. But if he hits you ONE MORE TIME..kick him out.. </div></div>
One more time??? What, two's the limit???? [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70392-silly.gif[/img] </div></div>

They're married. I saw give him one more chance.

[Serenity82]

Re: I would like some opinions

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: R00TS</div><div class="ubbcode-body">If you leave him my advice for you would be to never let
your son hear you talk of his father doing you this way.

I also was beatin unconcious and then strangled till he thought
I was dead. I had woke him up gettin in bed one nite [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/mad.gif[/img]
He insisted on no contact with th twins when devorced and i complied..
no support nothing but worth it.

My sons have never heard me say a bad word about their father and I feel its been easier for them to become better men.

Hopeing you can take Skells Mothers words to heart [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img] </div></div>

Sorry to hear that ROOTS! [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/70459-hugs.gif[/img]