Casual Dating - How to break up.

[Peasie]

indeed

yes. but no games these are mature (not old, mark you) people we talking bout.

[Wahalla]

"we both not getting any younger. we know this is not going anywhere so why waste more time. go and find your happiness"

that will work provided the other person doesn't think it was promising and was going places

Listen u deh wid mi fi den hagony and ddeh fact u like expensive meals u too mean fi pay fa. Plus mi jus as dirty in bed as u.But every time mi sidung fi watch cricket u disturb me bout wey deh relationship ah guh, wid nonsense hint bout u fren dem wey married. Stamp talk bout marriage an enjoy deh sex. Now look how u mek mi miss a Bravo outswinger.
Now mek mi relax an jink two beer an watch deh Pune warriors. Or tek u two bax ah creme an mek up out mi bathroom guh wey. Doh mek den door lick u pan u baxide ah oh!

[CeaBee]

yes. but no games these are mature (not old, mark you) people we talking bout.

chrrps.

them sound like ole fogeys

i would want break up with them too.

[goldilocks]

Go deh, Wahalla! just lay it all out!

[Peasie]

chrrps.

them sound like ole fogeys

i would want break up with them too.

unoo love tummuch drama an games. chrrps.

[Peasie]

tek u two bax ah creme an mek up out mi bathroom guh wey. Doh mek den door lick u pan u baxide ah oh!

If either of you leave things at the other's houses, eg. creme, birth control, make up, clothes, CDs, toothbrush,etc. that's not really casual dating either.

cho.

[Peasie]

Go deh, Wahalla! just lay it all out!

[Tropicana]

Let me give you another. It's a tad complicated.

I had always made it a policy to never see anyone who was separated. I started noticing that when men separated, by the time the ink on the divorce papers was dry, they were already locked down with someone else. So once I made an exception. It was a disaster.

He assured me that all that remained was a simple procedure. He said he was waiting for his lawyer to draw up the papers.

He wanted to talk on the phone for hours, even read me poetry but he would always have an excuse about going out...it's too cold, it's raining...we only got together a few times.

Even went shopping with him as he wanted his daughter to have identical furniture at his house and the mother's house.

Well the day the divorce papers arrived he was a basket case.


Anyway. One night we were talking and he went downstairs to check something. When he came back he said..."Do you realize that I had the oven on all this time while we were talking?' I said that means you are happily in love.

I proceeded to tell him about this move clip.

He said "Geez I guess I had better call ____ and tell her, guess what honey, we are happily in love..."



I never spoke to him after that. I sent him an email and said.

"Clearly you are not ready for a new relationship. I wish you all the best but I don't want to see you again."

He called many times and left messages and sent many emails but I never responded.

A friend of mine contacted him and tried to arrange to pick up my polo hat and shirt. (He had borrowed them for a photo shoot as he wanted to get back into modelling.) I never did get them back.

[Tropicana]

If either of you leave things at the other's houses, eg. creme, birth control, make up, clothes, CDs, toothbrush,etc. that's not really casual dating either.

cho.

Okay then define casual dating.

creme

You mean skin cream?

[Peasie]

Even went shopping with him as he wanted his daughter to have identical furniture at his house and the mother's house.

Well the day the divorce papers arrived he was a basket case.


Anyway. One night we were talking and he went downstairs to check something. When he came back he said..."Do you realize that I had the oven on all this time while we were talking?' I said that means you are happily in love.

If this is a true "casual relationship" as defined earlier, then

1. shopping for daughter's furniture thing is a little creepy
2. He called you when the divorce papers arrived and was a basket case? Icky
3. Saying to him "that means you are happily in love" while you are being entertained at his house is creepy and icky.

[Peasie]

Okay then define casual dating

The primary purpose of casual dating is to determine what kind, if any, relationship will blossom. Basically it is about two people who are looking to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises. For the squeamish, casual dating may or may not involve sex.

[Tropicana]

If this is a true "casual relationship" as defined earlier, then

1. shopping for daughter's furniture thing is a little creepy
2. He called you when the divorce papers arrived and was a basket case? Icky

3. Saying to him "that means you are happily in love" while you are being entertained at his house is creepy and icky.

We were talking on the phone.

Anyway...tons of red flags on this one and as I said we only got together a few times. It never really even got off the ground.

[Tropicana]

The primary purpose of casual dating is to determine what kind, if any, relationship will blossom. Basically it is about two people who are looking to get to know one another better, without commitments or promises. For the squeamish, casual dating may or may not involve sex.

Okay so you are talking about someone you have been on 2 or 3 dates with? Why would there be a need to break up. Why would anyone want to have sex with someone they have only seen 2 or 3 times?

I am somewhat confused.

[CeaBee]

so that him doan call u no more..or expect to go out with u no more.

[Gen]

exactly or chat bout baby

all yuh see a dust behind him

"Where do you see this going"

"Do you see marriage in our near future"




this will probably have him running for the hills



(unless him really did see marriage in the near future )