new love

[gullygirl]

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den wen dem get diss, dem a chat bout J'can man dem nuh good, an dem naa guh back deh, an hawse ded an cow fat.. please..
a nuh di fus dat deh bway run dah game deh.. yuh really tink him serious??.. anyway enjoy it while it las..

[Suesumba]

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den wen dem get diss, dem a chat bout J'can man dem nuh good, an dem naa guh back deh, an hawse ded an cow fat.. please..
a nuh di fus dat deh bway run dah game deh.. yuh really tink him serious??.. anyway enjoy it while it las..

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that will NOT happen [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70388-shameonyou.gif[/img]

[KgnJa69]

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den wen dem get diss, dem a chat bout J'can man dem nuh good, an dem naa guh back deh, an hawse ded an cow fat.. please..
a nuh di fus dat deh bway run dah game deh.. yuh really tink him serious??.. anyway enjoy it while it las..

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That was my next point GullyGirl... When reality come home, don't use your gullibleness and condem all Jamaican men! Trust me, the minute you walked into that hotel, you were sized up and was an immediate prey... don't start feeling too special, a dem deh buoy run tings and dem know exactly which lines the Americans, Canadians, British, Swedish girls swallow!

[gullygirl]

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anyway, shi bawn lucky still.. fi jus guh fine wan nice man jus siddung a wait pan she suh..

as yuh seh, datdeh bway did dun map har out as 'im si har....

[Suesumba]

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but he said he was "serious" [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[meoreo99]

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To the person who asked what I would do if this happened locally: It would happen the same way. However, I think there would have been a few dates before we would have slept together. That is the only difference there would have been.

[/ QUOTE ] So why behave any differently because you were on vacation? I think u just sampled some of the bamboo and you are now **in love**

Soooo what do you parents think of him? Since you are in love have you spoken to them about him.. You are considering a serious relationship with him which may lead to him living with you so it may be a good idea for him to be introduced to the family no?

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I was there on vacation with my parents. Because part of his job to speak with guests, he did meet and speak to both of my parents. As of right now, I don't think it's a good idea for my parents to know that we are anything more than friends. I would first like to see how the long distance relationship goes before giving my mom any more grey hairs. Culturally, we are from the Ukraine (eastern european Jew)but the US is our home. Growing up, all my parents ever wanted was for me to marry a Jew. I will, however, do what is best for me. I just don't want to get my parents involved until I know without a doubt that he is "the one." While in Jamaica though, my mom liked him. When he walked past us, or was eating where we were, she would always say, "oh look, there he is."

To the person who asked how old we are: I am 24 and he is 26.

[ReggaeGirl2000]

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I wish you the best and hope your relationship IS for real... that being said, please be VERY careful, as there are a lot of what they call "gigalos" or "rent a dread" or whatever ya wanna call them, these men just want a woman to take care of them and help them to live elsewhere.

Hang onto your money is my best advice... seen too many of my women friends get taken advantage of!!

Bless,
RG

[dr. bones]

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Best of luck to you. LDR's are hard, plus you will find out that a lot of these guys are just feeding you lines. Take it slow, and see what develops.

BTW, you said you were on vaca w/ your parents? Seperate rooms I assume. How were you hookin up w/ this guy, and your parents have no clue.

[meoreo99]

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Make sure that you can both live with the knowledge that this is an open relationship,both of you will have other people in your lives.
Jealousy can hurt to girl. [img]/forums/images/graemlins/70402-thinking.gif[/img]

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I asked him what "serious" meant to him. Although it was hard for him (as well as many other men out there)to say that he wanted a relationship with me. I very specifically asked him, "does that mean, no more girls for you, and no more boys for me?" and he said yes... which, in my book means an exclusive relationship. Do i know if he will stand by his word or if he will see other girls, no, i dont know but I will not live my life thinking about what he is doing and who he is with and if he's being faithful. I cant be bothered with making myself crazy and jealous for something I cant control. I wouldnt be able to control it even if he lived two houses down. I am chosing to trust him just as he is chosing to trust me.

[Suesumba]

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Culturally, we are from the Ukraine (eastern european Jew)but the US is our home. Growing up, all my parents ever wanted was for me to marry a Jew.

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if he's black, that's the closest thing to being a jew. both blacks and jews sometimes have unruly, difficult to manage hair. blacks and jews are also universally hated, so i don't really see what the worry is. your parents will embrace him in no time [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

[meoreo99]

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Best of luck to you. LDR's are hard, plus you will find out that a lot of these guys are just feeding you lines. Take it slow, and see what develops.

BTW, you said you were on vaca w/ your parents? Seperate rooms I assume. How were you hookin up w/ this guy, and your parents have no clue.

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I actually stayed in the same room with my parents. We hooked up 3 separate times. 1st time Storm Ernesto was coming, so all of the employees had to stay at the hotel. 2nd time I met him at ricks cafe, we hung out there a bit and went back to his place. 3rd time I went to the Jungle with him and to his place afterwards. I told my parents that he was just showing me around and being helpful (because my mom was petrified that something would happen to me cuz apparently, it's "dangerous" outside of the hotel"). My parents are gullible and believe anything I say to them because i'ma "good girl"... haha

to both RG and dr. bones, thank you kindly for your advice, i will take it and look out for warning signs... lucky for me, i'm a college student with only enough money for gas and an occasional dinner out.

[KgnJa69]

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Rexxxy, there is a bunch a lies in your little fantacy. You not even a potray a Jamaican gigalo correctly... I believed you for a minute, but now I see that this is a put on to gauge ppl responses (you probebly the same person who posted their 'affair' with the married African man with two little children).

Good luck, and hope your fantacy come true one day!

[ReggaeGirl2000]

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Best of luck to you. LDR's are hard, plus you will find out that a lot of these guys are just feeding you lines. Take it slow, and see what develops.

BTW, you said you were on vaca w/ your parents? Seperate rooms I assume. How were you hookin up w/ this guy, and your parents have no clue.

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I actually stayed in the same room with my parents. We hooked up 3 separate times. 1st time Storm Ernesto was coming, so all of the employees had to stay at the hotel. 2nd time I met him at ricks cafe, we hung out there a bit and went back to his place. 3rd time I went to the Jungle with him and to his place afterwards. I told my parents that he was just showing me around and being helpful (because my mom was petrified that something would happen to me cuz apparently, it's "dangerous" outside of the hotel"). My parents are gullible and believe anything I say to them because i'ma "good girl"... haha

to both RG and dr. bones, thank you kindly for your advice, i will take it and look out for warning signs... lucky for me, i'm a college student with only enough money for gas and an occasional dinner out.

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Ricks Cafe... The Jungle.... you were in Negril hey [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img] Tell us his name and where he works... someone here may even know him!!

[meoreo99]

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Culturally, we are from the Ukraine (eastern european Jew)but the US is our home. Growing up, all my parents ever wanted was for me to marry a Jew.

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if he's black, that's the closest thing to being a jew. both blacks and jews sometimes have unruly, difficult to manage hair. blacks and jews are also universally hated, so i don't really see what the worry is. your parents will embrace him in no time [img]/forums/images/graemlins/smile.gif[/img]

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suesumba.. you are too funny... i wish it was that easy, but what they will see is a skin color and a religion that is not theirs... it's not a racist thing, its just how they grew up, how they were conditioned. I think my mom will get over the initial shock and will welcome him into the family (if it gets to that point). Although she doesnt encourage me to date people outside of my religion, she does emphasize that she wants me to be treated well above all.

[Suesumba]

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you're 25 and your mom dictates to you who to date? you're 25 and still in college? what are you studying?