They called him gay

[evanovitch]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">We all say this is sad when it happens to a young child <span style="font-weight: bold">but had he been at least 10 years older de bun fyah crew would be all over this singing boom bye bye is my favorite tune</span>.

Yes homophobia is learned at home and in these cases expressed at school.


RIP for these poor boys so tortured they thought the only way out was to kill themselves before they have even lived. </div></div>

really... an if dem did ha di miggle finga one, it wudda go yah so too

[blugiant]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: britisha</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Kia</div><div class="ubbcode-body">but what is worse is that these kids have learned to label certain behaviours as gay when in fact they are not

- if a boy is naturally dramatic - he is gay
- if he likes to swim competitively - gay cause they were the speedo swimsuits

- if he likes to dance -- dat is considered gay
- if he likes classical music


this is at the preteen level \o/
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diss mekk mii laff

naturallee dramatik butt moas aff dem actor nuh funnee. ignore de realitee iff yu waan butt a latt aff dem jamaicans actors ar real funnee

speedoo

now dat yu mention dancer, dancehall iss gittinn funnee. mii meen men goo dancehall fii dance widd men ann a cawl demselves dancers. ignore de realitee dat latt aff dem dancers ar funnee

classical music de realitee iss dat a latt aff dem mzungu classical musicians were funnee like liberacee

oonnoo fii tapp oonnoo foolishness

dem yuths add mental health issues dat y dem commit suicide. funnee peeps awlso ave mental health issues </div></div>

You could not be serious...what you've basically said here and laughing about it is that these youths with their mental health issues are funnee peeps; in other words, gay. You are NO different than those bullies, those COWARDS who sent them over the edge...You should be FEARED at all cost..it is strange that you are still in society mingling with the &quot;normal folks&quot; instead of being locked away in some dungeon, where you might be really posting from...who knows?

juss membah, when yuh laffing and pinting yuh fingah on oddas, di thumb pinting back at yuh anna seh <span style="font-weight: bold">watch yuhself</span>..membah dat...and tap fi yuh foolishniss. </div></div>


like itt ar natt peeps wey play inn xxcrement ave mental health issue

stapp yu foolishness bout dem yuths mekk dat yuth commit suicide bye cawlinn imm funnee. dat yuths add mental health issue dat need fii bee address. itt easier fii blame addar peeps dan mekk peeps tekk respansibilitee fii dem own actions. y yu neva blame de boy parents fii natt gettinn imm professional eelp

[mountaingal]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
like itt ar natt peeps wey play inn xxcrement ave mental health issue </div></div>

sounds like ur saying the youths who suicided were gay. i'd like to believe ur not actually implying something so callous

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body">stapp yu foolishness bout dem yuths mekk dat yuth commit suicide bye cawlinn imm funnee. dat yuths add mental health issue dat need fii bee address. itt easier fii blame addar peeps dan mekk peeps tekk respansibilitee fii dem own actions. y yu neva blame de boy parents fii natt gettinn imm professional eelp </div></div>

u want everybody else fi get blame but not the bullies. the victim, the victim's parents. which, to some, could be interpreted that u support the bullies in these particular cases.

not everybody reacts to homophobic bullying or any bullying the same way, because not every human being is the same. imo the attention should be on the wrongful act, not the reaction.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">it's sad but <span style="font-weight: bold">i don't hink it's necessarily an issue of homophobia</span>; there have been kids who offed themselves thru being called fat, ugly, retarded, whatever...

only that mind knows why it would go to the extent of suicide </div></div>

but jah yout, if a kid has been bullied because they are black - wouldn't u think that would be an issue of racism? </div></div>

If the kid is black yes, but me thought them said the kid in this story was not gay. Me trying to add it up but me maths not coming out right.

[mountaingal]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: jah_yout</div><div class="ubbcode-body">it's sad but <span style="font-weight: bold">i don't hink it's necessarily an issue of homophobia</span>; there have been kids who offed themselves thru being called fat, ugly, retarded, whatever...

only that mind knows why it would go to the extent of suicide </div></div>

but jah yout, if a kid has been bullied because they are black - wouldn't u think that would be an issue of racism? </div></div>

If the kid is black yes, but me thought them said the kid in this story was not gay. Me trying to add it up but me maths not coming out right. </div></div>

dotcom, i was trying to draw a comparison between bullying based on homophobia and bullying based on racism. jah yout seemed to disagree that homophobia was at the root of the bullying in this case. however, if the kid had been bullied based on their race, then we would have said the racism was at the root of the bullying.

ultimately, i was trying to make the point that bullying comes out of a number of prejudices, including bigotry, racism, homophobia, sexism, etc.

[Mutty]

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From St. Croix, Virgin Islands, huh? Another one of our youths gone, sah. RIP little man.

[LiteBlonde]

Re: They called him gay

OK, gotcha!

[QK13]

Re: They called him gay

Just because bullying is so common doesn't make it right.

[Dr.Dudd]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Mutty</div><div class="ubbcode-body">From St. Croix, Virgin Islands, huh? Another one of our youths gone, sah. RIP little man.


</div></div>Ys that the same little man of the Jamaican posse rep??

[britisha]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: britisha</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

but what is worse is that these kids have learned to label certain behaviours as gay when in fact they are not

- if a boy is naturally dramatic - he is gay
- if he likes to swim competitively - gay cause they were the speedo swimsuits

- if he likes to dance -- dat is considered gay
- if he likes classical music


this is at the preteen level \o/
</div></div>

diss mekk mii laff

naturallee dramatik butt moas aff dem actor nuh funnee. ignore de realitee iff yu waan butt a latt aff dem jamaicans actors ar real funnee

speedoo

now dat yu mention dancer, dancehall iss gittinn funnee. mii meen men goo dancehall fii dance widd men ann a cawl demselves dancers. ignore de realitee dat latt aff dem dancers ar funnee

classical music de realitee iss dat a latt aff dem mzungu classical musicians were funnee like liberacee

oonnoo fii tapp oonnoo foolishness

dem yuths add mental health issues dat y dem commit suicide. funnee peeps awlso ave mental health issues </div></div>

You could not be serious...what you've basically said here and laughing about it is that these youths with their mental health issues are funnee peeps; in other words, gay. You are NO different than those bullies, those COWARDS who sent them over the edge...You should be FEARED at all cost..it is strange that you are still in society mingling with the &quot;normal folks&quot; instead of being locked away in some dungeon, where you might be really posting from...who knows?

juss membah, when yuh laffing and pinting yuh fingah on oddas, di thumb pinting back at yuh anna seh <span style="font-weight: bold">watch yuhself</span>..membah dat...and tap fi yuh foolishniss. </div></div>


like itt ar natt peeps wey play inn xxcrement ave mental health issue

stapp yu foolishness bout dem yuths mekk dat yuth commit suicide bye cawlinn imm funnee. dat yuths add mental health issue dat need fii bee address. itt easier fii blame addar peeps dan mekk peeps tekk respansibilitee fii dem own actions. y yu neva blame de boy parents fii natt gettinn imm professional eelp

Gwey wid yuh funny self, yuh noh si yuh a chat pere faawt..

[blugiant]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
like itt ar natt peeps wey play inn xxcrement ave mental health issue </div></div>

sounds like ur saying the youths who suicided were gay. i'd like to believe ur not actually implying something so callous

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mii neva sed dem were homosexuals. wat mii sed iss dat dem yuths ave mental health issues like homosexuals. woo fii sey dem yuths were natt molested bye homosexuals ann dat were de cause aff dem killinn demselves

[blugiant]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: blakkgiant</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
stapp yu foolishness bout dem yuths mekk dat yuth commit suicide bye cawlinn imm funnee. dat yuths add mental health issue dat need fii bee address. itt easier fii blame addar peeps dan mekk peeps tekk respansibilitee fii dem own actions. y yu neva blame de boy parents fii natt gettinn imm professional eelp </div></div>

u want everybody else fi get blame but not the bullies. the victim, the victim's parents. which, to some, could be interpreted that u support the bullies in these particular cases.

not everybody reacts to homophobic bullying or any bullying the same way, because not every human being is the same. imo the attention should be on the wrongful act, not the reaction. </div></div>

wat bullies yu chattinn bout. wan homophile rite wan artikkle dirrected at blakk blaminn blakk children fii tauntinn de yuth wey commited suicide. wear iss de proof dat dem blakk yuths actuallee were bullyinn de suicidal yuths. de way mii seeet iss a latt aff peeps inna diss tredd willinn fii accept dat homophile toree as troo

dat yuth wey commit suicide wass mentallee unstable ann neva gitt de proppa proffesssional eelp. y? y didn't imm parents gitt imm sum help since itt sund like imm wass cryinn out fii help? y didn't de school gitt imm sum help? peeps like fii ignore de realitee dat blakk yuths widd mental eealth issues ar less likelee fii gitt eelp dan mzungu yuths. y? like itt ar natt even iff dem yuths cawled de yuth gay dat wass natt de reason imm committed suicide. imm committed suicide cah imm wass mentallee unstable ann imm parents ann dem educational professional neva help imm fii gitt psychiatric help imm needed.

sarree butt mii doan see oww yu reallee beeleeve ten ar eleven ear ole blakk yuths wey might ave cawl dat suicidal boy gay ar respansible fe imm killinn immselves. den again itt easier fii mekk homosexuals scapegoat ann label blakk children fii push dem slack agenda

[britisha]

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<span style="font-size: 17pt">* shakking mi *ead and leggoh wan big YAWNNNNNNNNNNNN!!</span>

Dass why dem seh; walk in the light and not in darkness.

Look like dere are more dan enuff mental health issues to go around innah disyah chread... jack mandorah...::sad::

[Blackstar*]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: evanovitch</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><span style="font-style: italic">really... an if dem did ha di miggle finga one, it wudda go yah so too</span> </div></div>
Is that you, evanovitch?

[jah_yout]

Re: They called him gay

<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DotCom</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">

it's sad but <span style="font-weight: bold">i don't hink it's necessarily an issue of homophobia</span>; there have been kids who offed themselves thru being called fat, ugly, retarded, whatever...

only that mind knows why it would go to the extent of suicide </div></div>

but jah yout, if a kid has been bullied because they are black - wouldn't u think that would be an issue of racism? </div></div>

If the kid is black yes, but me thought them said the kid in this story was not gay. Me trying to add it up but me maths not coming out right. </div></div>

dotcom, i was trying to draw a comparison between bullying based on homophobia and bullying based on racism. jah yout seemed to disagree that homophobia was at the root of the bullying in this case. however, if the kid had been bullied based on their race, then we would have said the racism was at the root of the bullying.

ultimately, i was trying to make the point that bullying comes out of a number of prejudices, including bigotry, racism, homophobia, sexism, etc.

isn't that the point i was making too?

&quot;<span style="font-style: italic">it's sad but i don't hink it's necessarily an issue of homophobia; there have been kids who offed themselves thru being called fat, ugly, retarded, whatever...

only that mind knows why it would go to the extent of suicide &quot;</span>