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Re: Black Interracial Dating Issues
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The biggest mistake I find that MOST black men make, is to assume that the standards that progressive and ambitious black women set are unreachable.</div></div>
Thank you. Runnah, what they are really saying is that we don't DESERVE better and should be prepared to settle for any man who will have us. Only WHITE women are entitled to having standards.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should black women who work hard and have high hopes and high standards compromise them because SOME lazy black man decides not to reach for the stars?</div></div>
Exactly.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Where are those black men who once did not see any obstacles/barriers and would be willing to do whatever it takes to climb to the top and will accept nothing but the biggest and the best? What the heck is going on with our excuse-making black men who instead of looking to UPGRADE are desperately seeking someone to blame?</div></div>
Preach bredda preach.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I pray everyday for my daughters, because I would hang them high if they ever settle. They BETTER decide on maintaining the STANDARDS that I have instilled in them or hell will pay. Right now I am working hard on one who thinks she can change this man with habits that would make anyone puke, but thank God, she does not seem very serious about him. </div></div>
Just keep encouraging them.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just maybe much of those ones have had enough of the emasculation and opted to go elsewhere? </div></div>
So expecting a man to BE A MAN show some ambition, support his family, share the child care and household chores is emasculating him? I thought you were more together than that CEW. I never would have expected you to have such backward and archaic ideas. VERY disappointing.
<span style="font-weight: bold">For Tanya </span>
Tanya, if I have someone on ignore it is for a <span style="font-weight: bold">good </span>reason...they have been rude and insulting and I have decided not to engage with them. That is MY choice and my right. That is why the ignore feature exists. There are many I have disagreed with <span style="font-weight: bold">STRONGLY </span> including some in this thread. They are not on ignore as they have not been insulting and mean spirited. So this notion that I put people on ignore because they disagree with me is just plane horse manure. In future, I would respectfully request that you refrain from carrying messages to me from people who I have placed on ignore. Thank you you for respecting my wishes.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">The biggest mistake I find that MOST black men make, is to assume that the standards that progressive and ambitious black women set are unreachable.</div></div>
Thank you. Runnah, what they are really saying is that we don't DESERVE better and should be prepared to settle for any man who will have us. Only WHITE women are entitled to having standards.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Why should black women who work hard and have high hopes and high standards compromise them because SOME lazy black man decides not to reach for the stars?</div></div>
Exactly.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Where are those black men who once did not see any obstacles/barriers and would be willing to do whatever it takes to climb to the top and will accept nothing but the biggest and the best? What the heck is going on with our excuse-making black men who instead of looking to UPGRADE are desperately seeking someone to blame?</div></div>
Preach bredda preach.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Runnah</div><div class="ubbcode-body">I pray everyday for my daughters, because I would hang them high if they ever settle. They BETTER decide on maintaining the STANDARDS that I have instilled in them or hell will pay. Right now I am working hard on one who thinks she can change this man with habits that would make anyone puke, but thank God, she does not seem very serious about him. </div></div>
Just keep encouraging them.
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: CEW</div><div class="ubbcode-body">Just maybe much of those ones have had enough of the emasculation and opted to go elsewhere? </div></div>
So expecting a man to BE A MAN show some ambition, support his family, share the child care and household chores is emasculating him? I thought you were more together than that CEW. I never would have expected you to have such backward and archaic ideas. VERY disappointing.
<span style="font-weight: bold">For Tanya </span>
Tanya, if I have someone on ignore it is for a <span style="font-weight: bold">good </span>reason...they have been rude and insulting and I have decided not to engage with them. That is MY choice and my right. That is why the ignore feature exists. There are many I have disagreed with <span style="font-weight: bold">STRONGLY </span> including some in this thread. They are not on ignore as they have not been insulting and mean spirited. So this notion that I put people on ignore because they disagree with me is just plane horse manure. In future, I would respectfully request that you refrain from carrying messages to me from people who I have placed on ignore. Thank you you for respecting my wishes.
who knew 
I'm jus sayin... 
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