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Re: Should I go?
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DebsinNY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I thought long and hard about it and I have to admit I acted quite badly. Yes I hate the woman and I am relieved that I won't ever have to deal with her again, but if it wasn't for her I wouldn't have met my husband and I wouldn't have had my son.
But at the same time, it's not like you'd go to Saddam's funeral and say he was such a wonderful man when you know in life he was wicked and evil, now would you?
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Good that you were able to rethink your position (((Debs)))). A funeral is a time for family to convene and lean on each other. Your son probably met many relatives he had not seen before, which is a good thing, and since he only went to the post funeral gathering, it may not have been an entirely sad occasion, especially if there were other children there.
The nightmares have been for several years? Has he seen someone about that?
I'm a llittle saddened by some of the comments, especially in light of the possibility of history of domestic violence that was previously shared [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] I read your commments and 'attitude' as anger at your (ex)husband because of that history and his shirking his fatherly duties.
I hope you are able to move beyond that soon, and be a good bridge for your son and his father. It will not be easy, but is crucial to your son's mental health and stability.. </div></div>
He said he played with his cousins and had food. He likes cake so he was excited about that.
He has had night terrors since he was 2 and he is now 4. I spoke to his pediatrician about it and she said that it is fairly common among young children and he should grow it out eventually. I hate when he gets them which is not too often, about every few weeks. I was told to wake him up about an hour into his sleep to interrupt the sleep cycle but to be honest I don't like waking him, and some nights I am not with him. But I hate when he starts screaming and sweating. I feel so helpless. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]
<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: Dear K</div><div class="ubbcode-body"><div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: DebsinNY</div><div class="ubbcode-body">
I thought long and hard about it and I have to admit I acted quite badly. Yes I hate the woman and I am relieved that I won't ever have to deal with her again, but if it wasn't for her I wouldn't have met my husband and I wouldn't have had my son.
But at the same time, it's not like you'd go to Saddam's funeral and say he was such a wonderful man when you know in life he was wicked and evil, now would you?
</div></div>
Good that you were able to rethink your position (((Debs)))). A funeral is a time for family to convene and lean on each other. Your son probably met many relatives he had not seen before, which is a good thing, and since he only went to the post funeral gathering, it may not have been an entirely sad occasion, especially if there were other children there.
The nightmares have been for several years? Has he seen someone about that?
I'm a llittle saddened by some of the comments, especially in light of the possibility of history of domestic violence that was previously shared [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img] I read your commments and 'attitude' as anger at your (ex)husband because of that history and his shirking his fatherly duties.
I hope you are able to move beyond that soon, and be a good bridge for your son and his father. It will not be easy, but is crucial to your son's mental health and stability.. </div></div>
He said he played with his cousins and had food. He likes cake so he was excited about that.
He has had night terrors since he was 2 and he is now 4. I spoke to his pediatrician about it and she said that it is fairly common among young children and he should grow it out eventually. I hate when he gets them which is not too often, about every few weeks. I was told to wake him up about an hour into his sleep to interrupt the sleep cycle but to be honest I don't like waking him, and some nights I am not with him. But I hate when he starts screaming and sweating. I feel so helpless. [img]/forums/images/%%GRAEMLIN_URL%%/frown.gif[/img]
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