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[Nanook]

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OMG. It has come to this. I hope she is with you. or I hope she is with child protection if you cannot legally help her.

Come back ILP..what happened next?

[turtledude]

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the tornado swallows deh current Mr ILP!
Have babygirl A call all her male frens over 6'4" tall to go over to the sidewalk to get her stuff with her!

[ILP]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: MGee</div><div class="ubbcode-body">(((ilpy))) am worried u think i'm not in ur corner cuz of my comment above. i am. </div></div>

nu worry MG...mi juss neva know wah weakness you was referring to.
truthfully mi nuh buy di argument weh har muddah try use cah mi dont want ahn have never wanted any kids.
mi neva try fi pretend mi babygirl A muddah nor have i ever try tek away har muddah power.

but when you explain...mi get what you saying...

[sistacaf]

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<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Quote:</div><div class="ubbcode-body"> mi nuh buy di argument weh har muddah try use...mi neva try fi pretend mi babygirl A muddah nor have i ever try tek away har muddah power.</div></div>

of course not, you are thinking only what's best for babygirlA <span style="font-style: italic"> (and apparently you the <span style="font-weight: bold">only</span> one thinking of that)</span>

but it doesn't matter what your actual intentions are, the mother says them things cause dem a <span style="font-weight: bold">her</span> weak spot.
she's being defensive, lickin out from her <span style="font-weight: bold"><span style="font-style: italic">own</span></span> fear and insecurity and jellusy about you bein a better &amp; more loving mother to the child than she.

((ILP)) yah, nobody wants to deal with drama, but the important thing is babygirlA, and seems like you the only one standing for that, even if you may hav to go thru some mess to make sure she is ok.

now that she's older and in the workin world, starting to see what life's about, it seems like she's ready to stand up for her own life now, and that's when she goh need <span style="font-style: italic">real</span> support. i think she's probly dyin to get outta there &amp; get to college and live her own life in a decent normal way. god knows what could happen to her if nobody was there to provide her a safety net, and help her navigate the waters, til she gets there.... her whole life could turn on what happens now.

Bless You

[Gen]

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yes thank the lawd ILP has been there for the child (all when the madda a cuss and a galang and mek it difficult)

the poor child has had enough and mi juss surprise she stick it out with har madda dat long.

mi cant wait fi she get to college


<div class="ubbcode-block"><div class="ubbcode-header">Originally Posted By: SweetSsop</div><div class="ubbcode-body">ILP all mi haffi sey u is a God Bless ooman
and Maye He continue to bless you so you can continue to be the person who you are for babygirlA </div></div>

[ILP]

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wi reach back at my house ahn ah siddung inna di kitchen trying fi figure out what di next step would be. cah all though is almost summer, babygirl A have few days left of school, prom (if she could go), graduation, work ahn dem tings deh fi consider.

all dis time babygirl A nuh stop bawl. she just a bawl aye sah. she juss a bawl.

mi hated to do it wid har being so upset ahn all, but mi had was fi ask babygirl A wah she did mean when she tell har muddah daht she &quot;only sleep there&quot;. babygirl A explain that for months she has gotten up early, played with her baby sister (which I think is really sweet again ) and then left for school early all under the pretense of having to meet this teacher or get study/review session help for AP classes. she seh fram there she eidah stay after school ahn study or do activity, then she go one ah har job. she seh she mek sure to reach back in di house late at night, she sleep and do it all over again. so mi ask how she eat ahn wah bout weekends? she seh she eat on di street (from work) or she buy McDonalds and on di weekends she go har job or go to library or a friends.

Mi neva know nutten bout dis. mi ask if har muddah nuh say nutten to har bout it. cah mi nuh know if dem type ah behavior would fly if a my house daht she seh har muddah ask were she going and when she ansa har muddah say ok ahn das it. plus she always bring tings fi har baby sister ahn she have cellie weh har muddah send har text

mi say ok, as mi figure wah mi can do or say now. mi ask if she want likkle dinner, she seh she tyad and she just want to lie dung ahn sleep. mi say ok..she gone upstairs.

mi sit inna di kitchen likkle bit trying to figure out wah mi fi do now. i mean.... mi try ask di current mr ilp fi some advice. im seh i never have none, but im knew it would get to this cah people that live like babygirl A muddah &quot;are bloodsuckers and they get stronger the more blood they suck.&quot; it wasnt what i wanted to here. mi tell im wah babygirl A muddah seh bout she gwine put babygirl A tings on sidewalk. im seh she neva follow through wid nutten inna har life why she would follow through wid dis? maybe she was just blowing off steam. mi say alright.

mi go up go look in on babygirl A, she fast asleep wid har cellie and di box a kleenex in har hand

[Nanook]

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I hope she got a good nights sleep for once!!! Such a sad story..ok come with it, what happens next?

[ILP]

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well wi get up early di next mawnin. babygirl A seh need fi go to school cah is di few lass days ahn she have tings fi do. wi a ah try figure out logistics cah babygirl A live way ova inna di next town (about 1 hour away).

di current mr ilp seh im will drop har at school cah I miself have exam fi give ahn grade report to run. babygirl A seh she will call bout prom. wi all lef fi go bout wi day...

so mi reach work ahn a wait, wait, wait fi mi cellie to ring. mi ah call (even doh mi know babygirl A nuh fi use phone in school mi a try reach di current mr ilp...no body not answering... )

it mussi 10 before mi get text fram di current mr ilp. im seh im was at home ahn call when mi can. mi call immediately....
im seh while im driving babygirl A to school dem decide to stop ova babygirl A muddah place. im seh when dem pull up EVERY STRIKING TING WEH BABYGIRL A OWN INNA TRASH BAG AHN ON DI SIDEWALK IN FRONT OF DEM HOUSE. EVERY SINGLE TING. Can you imagine daht? di ole cleage put har own child tings on di street.

mi stawt shake again...mi dumb striken fi real.

im continue tell me daht babygirl A stawt bawl...again... ahn askin wah she should do? im seh babygirl A use har house key go open di door ahn wah di ole wretch couldnt fit inna trash bag she mash up.

so di current mr ilp seh im ask babygirl A wah she want fi do? in between di tears, di shock, she a fret bout she need fi go ah school go do wah dem haffi do since is di few last days. im seh im drop har at school ahn go back to di house go pick up as many of di trash bags as im could fit inna di car ahn im bring dem back to wi place.

mi shame fi dis, but i was so damned mad by dis point daht mi call babygirl A muddah. di [censored] ansa di phone ahn ah chat nochalant like ah nutten bout wah she can do for me? mi ask har how she could be so low down fi put har own daughter tings inna trash bag ahn dash dem on di street. she come wid, &quot;you all wanna play this game? i told you both, I'd play.&quot; mi ask har if she really tink har daughter life is game, if she really blieve seh people life is game? she giggle ahn seh, &quot;this is how you all decided to play things.&quot; mi tell har one day she was gonna dead ahn mi gwine pray is soon. ahn mi hope di lass ting she see when she drawing har lass breath was babygirl A face. &lt;---mi felt bad after mi sed daht, but mi was so angry.

mi finish working and left work as soon as mi could. when mi reach home di afternoon. di current mr ilp, babygirl A and one neddah young man (weh get introduce to me as babygirl A friend fram school) a chat inna di driveway. apparently babygirl A ahn him lef school (mi had fi inquire if dem have dem kinna pass weh dem can juss lef school...dem assure mi dem did). di both of dem go pick up di rest ah babygirl A tings from di sidewalk and pick out wah dem could from di mashup tings inna di house ahn dem was inna di driveway getting ready fi unload.

wi unload di truck weh di young man was driving. den move inna di kitchen. truely wi fava smaddy weh juss return fram one war.

di young man seh im had was fi go...cah im need fi get to work. im ask if babygirl A was gonna be able fi mek it fi hengout &quot;tomorrow&quot; &lt;---prom night. she seh she would call. di young man left. mi inquire bout di prom. babygirl A seh she nuh want to go again, plus di tickets sold out. mi ask if she gwine at least heng out wid har friend dem on prom night, she seh, &quot;truthfully aunt ILP...I just wanna sleep. I am so tired.&quot;

ahn is in di bed babygirl A has been since. she get up cry, sleep, cry, go back inna di bed, cry, sleep. mi juss look in pon har...she inna di room looking out di window. mi ask if she want to go look fi har graduation dress tiddey. she seh, &quot;sure. if you want to.&quot; she ask mi to leave har alone for a while, mi shut di door ahn mi hear she stawt bawl again.

when oonu hear mi seh mi angry...mi angry cyan done. it is taking all the energy mi have inside of mi to not go find daht di ole cref weh call harself muddah ahn beat har to death. i mean...she is low down and cold. how a ooman weh have pickney daht come fram dem body can turn around ahn do such tings. i mean seriously? she need fi dead

[Nanook]

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Thank God for you ILP. This is one of the saddest stories I ever did read. As tough as this is for you, I am so glad she has you in her life. It sounds as though she has kept a lot of things bottled up inside and they are now flowing out. That is a good thing.

(((ILP BabygirlA current mr. ILP)))

[CeaBee]

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u right...is a cold mother indeed that would giggle over putting her dawta's things in a garbage bag pon the sidewalk.

me nuh think me could ever do that without much angst ....

i not sure what babygirl A mother thinking..&quot;serve them right&quot; or if she really upset and giggling bout it to cover...in any event....me feel fi babygirlA

[Stormmey]

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Lawd ILP that just tear at my heartstrings

Babygirl A mother!! what a heartless woman, she is also dangerous, cruel, jealous and vindictive.

I don't not think you should go anywhere near that woman alone unless someone is with you she sound like she would do you bodily harm.

I hope Babygirl A is able to move on as sometimes you tend to hang on to baggage for way too long. I know I did for a long time with my Mom fore I was able to move on.

ILP and Babygirl A

[kia027]

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yes is a cold and selfish mother who can tek ar pickney tings and dash weh so , especially in this case where the pickney a do ALL THE RIGHT THINGS


Please give babygirlA a hug fi all a wi and yes tek her out and get her a beautiful dress fi graduation

(((BabygirlA and the ILPs)))

[Hush Darlin]

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this is a very heart breaking story made me cry
but God is good
your are BaygirlA angel
Thank God for the person who you are ILP
and as I said you are very Blessed
and God's Grace abd Mercy will see you through

Jus let Baybygirl know you love her
cause she needs to hear that
hug her as much as you can
continue to be her shelter in the storm.

As for her mother jus leave her to God
what goes around will come around
as dem sey back home &quot; bad lick wuss dan obeah&quot;
but a noh obeah
every actiion there is a reaction

[turtledude]

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Hope you get some rest too ILP

don't forget to pray for Babygirl A's mother....



ya gotta wonder what <span style="font-style: italic"> HER</span> childhood was like.

[SistahD]

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Such a gut wrenching story (((ILP))) thankfully you've always been there for BabygirlA, and your caring and respect has given her the strength she needed during one (of many) of the most important times in her life. Her mother is totally self-important, selfish and 'ugly to the bone'. Really sad that because of the drama caused by mom BabygirlA missed getting a ticket.